Some time ago, one of
my clients challenged me to record the 20 most important lessons I’ve learned. After a great deal of reflection, I eventually came up with 25. This is one.
As I was just beginning to build my consulting practice, I learned a lesson that has stuck with me ever since, and shaped much of
the training programs, videos and articles that I have produced. It may make a difference in the trajectory of your personal growth and development, and it can be a powerful force for the development of a team.
Here’s the story. I read the books on how to build a consulting practice and
they all said, ‘give seminars.” So, I did, eventually making arrangements with a local business college to create and present a number of seminars for the local business community. I would create the seminar. The college would promote it and handle the money. I would present it in their facilities, and we would split the profits. A win/win for everyone.
For every seminar, I always used an extensive evaluation form that I’d ask every seminar participant to complete. One of the questions, regardless of the content was this: “What was the most important thing you got out of this seminar?”
I was shocked! Typically, one out of 20 or so people would write down something that was not a part of the seminar! How could they have gotten that from it, when it was not in any of the content?
As I studied this recurring phenomenon, I realized what was happening. They had some issue or problem on their mind – maybe even subconsciously, they would hear something – maybe from me, but maybe from someone else at the break or in our discussions – and that would click on an idea, and that would click on the thing they were looking for. They then celebrated the answer because they had
received in the webinar. But it was two or three clicks away from what was said. They recognized the answer but didn’t notice that it was a couple of clicks away from what was being presented.