Learning, defined as
change in behavior, has become the ultimate survival skill for our age.
And that brings us back to the gap between idea and action. If we are going to survive and prosper in this new rapidly changing environment, we must be able to bridge that gap – not occasionally, but regularly and predictably — so that we can continually gain the skills and competencies we’ll need to keep
pace.
Over the past 30 years, this has been a passion of mine. I have created a set of tools I call Menta-Morphosis® – thinking skills that allow you, among other things, to change your behavior more rapidly than ever. And, while Menta-Morphosis® deals with a larger scope of activities than just the gap between idea and action, it provides
powerful tools for that specific application as well.
What is missing in most people’s repertoire when it comes to turning good ideas into specific habits, are two things: Specificity and accountability.
Specificity
As long as an idea remains vague, it is almost impossible to turn it into action. For example, one of the core modules in my curriculum is the ”Art of Asking Better Questions.” After having been exposed to that content, a participant may conclude,
“Asking
better questions is a good idea. I should do that.”
That is a vague charge, and highly unlikely to turn into changed behavior. However, by turning that vague idea into a specific “precise prescription” for future behavior it would look like this: “I will prepare and ask three
better questions for every important engagement.” This statement is much more specific and therefore more likely to turn into changed behavior. Here are three criteria to help you make this transition.
1. Observable. The language you use to frame the prescription for your action should describe something
that can be seen by an objective third party observer. I tell students to imagine a little gnome riding on their shoulder all day long. At the end of the day, this impartial observer, watching your behavior, should be able to say “Yes” he did it, or “No, he did not” . So, “I will think good thoughts” doesn’t count, while “I will compliment at least one person every day” does.
2. Daily expression. While some behaviors are most likely to be used once a week, or even once a month, try to describe your good idea in the smallest increment of time. So, a daily event is better than a weekly, and weekly is better than monthly.
3. Begins with the words “I will…” Your commitment has to be your commitment. Expressing your changed behavior in terms of “I will” puts the responsibility squarely on you to be the person responsible for changed behavior.
Putting these three criteria into play turns “Asking better questions is a good idea. I should do that,” into “I will prepare and ask three good questions for every important engagement.”
The second rendition of the idea is much more likely to result in... READ THE FULL ARTICLE HERE