I had projected the
habits, attitudes, practices and disciplines that I had built into my routines onto them. Since I thought a certain way, or did specific things, I thought everyone else did too. Instead of seeing each one as a unique combination of attitudes, skills and experiences, I had seen them as projections of my personality.
The truth was that they hadn’t had my life experiences, my education, nor my attitudes and skills. They weren’t me!
What may sound so simple was really a
watershed moment in my career and one of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned.
Since I had that epiphany, I have since seen the same phenomenon at work in countless of the companies for whom I have consulted. Typically, I see it at the entrepreneur’s level, where a driven, highly motivated entrepreneur expects everyone else to have the same degree of drive that he/she has. Since they don’t – after all, they are not... READ THE FULL ARTICLE HERE