Freedom and Boundaries: Micro-Scale
On a micro-scale, I saw the same phenomena in my home. My wife and I were foster parents, and over the years we had 19 foster children of various ages, sexes, races, and physical and emotional disabilities. I would watch as my wife would acclimate a new foster child to our home. My wife was showing him/her the bedroom, and proclaim, “This is your bedroom. You will sleep in the bed, not
on the floor or in the closet.”
Next, the bathroom, “This is the bathroom, and here is your toothbrush. You will brush your teeth and wash your face every morning before you greet the rest of the family.”
Then, the dining room table. “This is where we eat. You’ll sit here and eat when the family eats. You’ll use a fork and spoon and be a part of the family meals.”
I would watch as the structure came down on these kids. And, typically, they would test the structure for a day or two, and then mold their behavior to fit the structure. Within a week or two, they began to prosper under the new structure.
The principle was confirmed. Change the structure and you change the behavior of the people who operate within that structure.
When we focus on people and neglect the structure, we do all the people a disservice. An effective system builds a structure that provides both freedom for people to exercise their skills and gifts and boundaries that contain and focus that energy and expertise.
Freedom Without Boundaries
Freedom without boundaries leads to anarchy. Group energy becomes dissipated and individual behavior ultimately becomes self-seeking. On the other hand, boundaries without freedom stifle individual initiative. Personal growth is stunted, and morale often decays to depression and resignation.
Effective organizations implement well-designed systems. That means a balance of freedom and boundaries for the individuals who work within those systems. The systems come first, and they help attract good people. Once a good system is put in place than the people can be put in the right places, provided with freedom and boundaries, and provided the opportunity to excel. Before you can put the
right people in the right seats, the bus must be well designed and operating efficiently.
In The Beginning
This should come as no surprise to the educated business leader. Those conversant with the Bible will recall, in the very early chapters of the book of Genesis, when God, the systems designer, provided freedom and boundaries to Adam and Eve.
“You are free to eat from any tree in the garden, but you must not eat from the tree of knowledge of good and evil, ….”
There it is, at the beginning of recorded history, an entity far wiser than we, ordering human behavior around freedom and boundaries. We’d all do well to consider that model and mimic it in the organizations we influence.