Here’s how to go about creating long-term goals.
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1. Select an area in which to concentrate.
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Since we are talking about long-term goals -- say 10 or more years into the future -- you should be working with fundamental aspects of your life. I often suggest that people think first about these five areas of their lives:Â
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      1. Spiritual
      2. Financial
      3. Career
      4. Relationships (social)
      5. Physical
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Pick one area, work on it, and then move on to another area until you have all five fundamental aspects of your life covered with long-term goals.Â
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2. Brainstorm (Daydream)Â
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Next, daydream about what you’d like to achieve with respect to that part of your life or job. Kick back, relax, and begin to list on a piece of paper all the things you’d like to accomplish in the area on which you’re focusing. Create a list of your dreams. Don’t edit or judge what you’ve written, rather, just make a long list of your dreams. Keep the time frame in mind. We’re not talking about next month. These are long term, decades ahead, lifetime-ish sorts
of dreams.Â
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Nobody else can do this for you because no one really knows your situation and your aspirations better than you do.Â
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Here’s an example. Let’s say that you are thinking about your career, and you’ve begun to daydream about what you’d like to accomplish in that area. You write these things down:Â
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- make a lot more money
- become one of the top salespeopleÂ
- advance into managementÂ
- successfully go into business for myselfÂ
- become a vice-president of sales somewhere
3. Prioritize
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If you’ve done a good job daydreaming, you probably have a long list of things you’d like to accomplish. Unfortunately, you can’t do everything. You just don’t have enough time and energy to do everything you'd like to do. And, some of your possibilities, your daydreams, may be mutually exclusive. So, you must prioritize...[read
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